LASTING HEALING STARTS FROM WITHIN
In order to have the adult life you desire, you must take responsibility for parenting your own inner child. But if you are like most people, you have spent years denying, neglecting, judging, or abandoning your inner child.
Therefore you have continued to experience frustration and difficulty in numerous aspects of your life. You may also experience having the same kind of problem or issue show up over and over again no matter what you do to try and “fix” it.
Here are just some situations that cause inner child wounding:
True transformation requires accepting, acknowledging and processing what happened to you in childhood so you stop recreating similar experiences as an adult. You must give that little boy or little girl inside what he or she never got as a child.
- Parents getting divorce
- Any kind of emotional, mental, physical or sexual abuse
- Being physically different as a child (overweight, underweight, taller, shorter, different race, early or late bloomer, disability, etc)
- Being told by a parent or any authority figure that you were “too much” or “not enough” in some way
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- Having extremely strict or religiously zealous parents
- Growing up in chaos
- Moving to different cities a lot
- Feeling unsafe
- A parent that abandoned you physically or emotionally
- Getting teased or bullied
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There is a LOT that happens to you in childhood when your brain and belief system are being programmed that dramatically impacts how you think, react and attract as an adult.
Yet society doesn’t encourage you to tend to your inner child. Instead you feel the collective pressure to be productive, successful, and hustle which only reinforces the “not-enoughness” that the inner child feels.
True transformation requires accepting, acknowledging and processing what happened to you in childhood so you stop recreating similar experiences as an adult. You must give that little boy or little girl inside what he or she never got as a child. |
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